the sweet lover

YOU RAWK MY SOCKS

1) Name of a person who made you laugh last night? :: sheila

2) What were you doing at 0800? :: I was still sleeping! I’m off today!

3) What were you doing 30 minutes ago? :: checking emails

4) What happened to you in 2006? :: hmmm… nothing exciting… had lots of gimiks when I had my vacation.

5) What was the last thing you said out loud? :: last night… I shouted “bye everyone!”

6) How many beverages did you have today? :: horlicks... one cup.

7) What colour is your hairbrush? :: I don’t have a hair brush…

8)What was the last thing you paid for? :: padeliver ng dinner last night… I was so tired to cook eh…

9) Where were you last night? :: home after work…

10) What colour is your front door? :: dark brown

11) Where do you keep your change? :: I put coins in my knapsack… . 12) What's the weather like today? :: scorching hot outside

13) What's the best ice-cream flavour? :: rocky road and cookies and cream…

14) What excites you? :: music .

15) Do you want to cut your hair? :: I two weeks time I guess…

16) Are you over the age of 25? :: yeah

17) Do you talk a lot? :: yeah

18) Do you watch the O.C? :: uhm… what’s that…sorry…

19) Do you know anyone named Steven? :: yeah… my old classmate in elementary…

20) Do you make up your own words? :: uhm… yes of course

21) Are you a jealous person? :: at times…

22) Name a friend or friends whose name starts with the letter 'A'. :: andy, angel, aliana, anton, Antonio,

23) Name a friend or friends whose name starts with the letter 'K'. :: Kaye, Katrina, katkat

24) Who's the first person on your received call list? :: my son

25) What does the last text message you received say? :: uhm… mejo personal

26) Do you chew on your straw? :: huh… naah.

28) Where's the next place you're going to? :: grocery sa mall mya… ala na fud eh…

29) Who's the rudest person in your life? :: uhm I cant think of any right now… I think it’s becoz I don’t keep grudges…

30) What was the last thing you ate? :: oatmeal, banana, yoghurt and and a cup of horlicks

31) Will you get married in the future? :: I think so  32) What's the best movie you've seen in the past 2 weeks? :: didnt watch a movie in the last two weeks

33) Is there anyone you like right now ? :: uhmmm…. Yeah 

34) When was the last time you did the dishes? :: last night… I haven’t done this morning’s.

35) Are you currently depressed? :: no

36) Did you cry today? :: NO.

37) Why did you answer and post this? :: huh… di ba dapat sagutan? Alang magawa eh… hinihintay ko kasi matapos ang washing machine… hehe…

Nurses are Forever!

Another one of those Q&As! Sensya na po walang magawa kasi mahaba na naman off ko! hehe! Cheers!

Nurse Survey!

Message:

ikaw ba ay isang NURSE?sagutan mo to!

name : MARCUS REYES

Birthday: secret J

1. kelan ka nagenrol sa BSNursing ?

- 1997

2. kelan ka grumadweyt ng nursing?

- 2001

3. ano ang fave nursing subject mo?

-MED SURG oha oha

4. e ano pinakayaw mong subject?

-Philosophy of Man (boring). . .

5. nalate ka na ba sa duty?

Oo naman. . .

6.naniniwala ka ba na pag nagnurse ka yayaman ka?

-oo naman… pero nasa tao yan… nurse ka nga pero tamad ka naman, wala rin!

10.may work ka ba o student?

-work na po!

11.ano favorite mong area/unit?

- ER… andito na ko eh…

12.ano gnagawa mo kapag pinapagalitan ka ng headnurse/ci nyo?

-hmm. . . din man ako masyado nakakagalitan ng head nurse…

13.nasigawan ka na ba ng doktor?

-ako ang naninigaw ng doctor… hehehe.

14.sino favorite mong ci/professor?

-si Mam Delos Sanos... Kesa cutie siya... hehe

15.nakagawa ka na ba ng IR?

-hmm... OVA ang tawag sa amin nun...  oo naman

16.ano ang pinakagusto mong shift?

-night shift… mas tahimik ang mundo!

17.natutulog ka ba sa duty kapag night shift ka?

-hindi po.. promise…

18.kabisado mo ba ang nightingale pledge?

-uhmm… tagal ko nang graduate… kalimutan ko na yun… saka I never memorized that

19.ano naassign sayo pag may case presentation?

- ha... syempre pathophysio... bigatin ito noh... hahaha!

20.nag bebed to bed ba kayo kapag endorsement?

-uhm hindi namin ginagawa yan sa ER. . .

21.ilan ang pinakamarami mong pasyente sa isang shift?

-anim!!

22.namatayan ka na ba ng pasyente?

-oo nman!! ER kaya ako...

23.after ng duty san ka tumatambay?

-derecho haus na...

24.magaling ka ba sa pathophysio?

-di na masyado eh... dati nung nag aaral pa ko

25.ano kulay ng school uniform nyo?

-school ba… e di puti syempre…

27.gusto mo ba magabroad?

-hello… andito na kaya ako…

28.Bakit?

- para yumaman… matapos na ang binabayaran kong haus… makapagtayo ng maraming business… para pag nag retire na ako sa pag hu nursing… marami pa rin akong pera… hehe…

Marcus-coated No. 1!

Another one of those Q&A messages!

Let me try another one!

1.EVER LOST A CELL PHONE? > yeah, once

2.THINGS YOU SPEND A LOT OF MONEY ON? > clothes, food

3.LAST FOOD YOU ATE? > oatmeal, yoghurt ,a banana and horlicks

4.WHERE DO YOU LIVE? > bulacan, but im in Riyadh at the moment

5.WHERE'S YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO EAT WITH FRIENDS? > shawarmahan

6.CAN YOU COOK? > yes

7.CAN YOU SING? > yes

8.DO YOU SMOKE? > no

9.PANCAKES OR FRENCH TOAST? > both

10.DO YOU LIKE COFFEE? > not much

11.WHAT WAS THE LAST TEXT MESSAGE YOU RECEIVED AND FROM WHOM?: > from my son saying good morning 

12.CAN YOU PLAY POOL? > yes

14.FAVORITE ICE CREAM FLAVOR?: > cookies and cream

15.WHAT TIME DID YOU WAKE UP THIS MORNING? > 11 am 

16.WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO THIS WEEKEND? > I don’t know yet. Maybe I’ll just rest the whole weekend.

17.DO YOU MISS SOMEONE RIGHT NOW? > yes

18.DO YOU HAVE A SISTER? > yes

19.WHAT WERE YOU DOING 30 MINUTES AGO? > surfing the net

20.IF YOU WERE A COLOR, WHAT WOULD YOU BE? > blue

21.IF YOU COULD GO ANYWHERE RIGHT NOW, WHERE? > philippines

22.FOOD YOU'RE CRAVING FOR RIGHT THIS MINUTE? > potato salad

23.NAME A PERSON WHO'S NAME STARTS WITH THE LETTER "J"? > joanna

24.WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU PUT IN YOUR GROCERY CART? > depends on which aisle of the grocery I start.

25.RADIO STATION YOU FREQUENTLY LISTEN TO? > I don’t listen to the radio much

26.WHERE DO YOU USUALLY HANG OUT? > somewhere down the road, hahaha

27.WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SUBJECT IN COLLEGE?? > Filipino hehe…

28.WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO TOMORROW? > I will sleep the whole day coz im working night shift tonight

30.FAVORITE DAY? > uhm… none in particular…

31.ARE YOU EASY TO GET ALONG WITH? > yes

32.WHOSE BIRTHDAY IS COMING UP? > tita cora

33.HAVE YOU EVER BEEN TO SEA WORLD? > saan bay un… hehe

34.HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU WANT? > 3

35.FAVORITE PLACE IN YOUR HOUSE? > my living room coz my entertainment stuffs are all there. >

36.WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE FRUITS? > ripe mangoes and bananas

37.IS YOUR COMPUTER IN YOUR BEDROOM? > no

38.IS YOUR HAIR LONG OR SHORT? > short

39.DO YOU LIKE GOING TO THE SUPERMARKET? > yes

40.HOW MUCH IS YOUR ALLOWANCE FOR ONE MONTH? > 1000 dirhams. That’s for food, bills, and some luho…

42.WHERE DID YOU LAST GO? > shopping sa mall kagabi

43. WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO RIGHT NOW? > watch porn… hehe… joke!

44. ARE YOU TIRED? > hindi naman… kakagising ko lang

45. HUNGRY? > nope,i just ate brunch!

40 Little Secrets

Haay... kakabore... sagutan ko na nga lang tong forwarded message ni kulasa... o hayan ginawa ko na ha! Hehehe!

40 little Secrets

Be honest no matter what.

[ONE] Who were your latest 3 inbox texts from?

... from ka friendsters lang…

[TWO] Where was your default pic taken?

...sa ortigas

[THREE] What's your middle name?

...

austria

[FOUR] Your current relationship

status?

...may gf po

[FIVE] Does your crush like you back?

...dami ko crush eh… yung iba they like me back… yung iba hindi

[SIX] What is your current mood?

...antok

[SEVEN] What's your mom's name?

...Susan

[EIGHT] What color shirt are you

wearing?

...white sando

[NINE] Would you kiss the last person

you kissed?

...uhmm… ang ni kiss ko last ay yung celebrant sa bday party kagabi!

[TEN] If you could go back in time and

change something, would you?

...oh definitely yes

[ELEVEN] Have a crazy side?

...yeah

[TWELVE] Ever had a near death

experience?

...yup… car accident last year… pero galos lang sa tuhod nakuha ko… but the car was totally wrecked

[THIRTEEN] What is something you do a

lot?

...trabaho

[FOURTEEN] Angry at anyone?

...uhm… wala naman

[FIFTEEN] Do you wanna see somebody

right Now?

...oo my son

[SIXTEEN] Do you like drama?

...depends on the mood

[SEVENTEEN] When was the last time you

cried?

...tagal na…

[EIGHTEEN] Who would you do anything

for?

...my SON…

[NINETEEN] Who is your hero?

...family…

[TWENTY] What is the one thing you

notice first with the opposite sex?

... syempre yung physical appearance… una nga eh db…

twenty one?!

[TWENTY-TWO] What's your biggest

secret?

...secret! kaya nga secret eh!

[TWENTY-THREE] Where is your ex?

...malay ko sa kanya hehe

[TWENTY-FOUR] Would you ever take him/

her back?

..uhm… I have somebody now…

[TWENTY-FIVE] Do you still watch kiddy

movies or tv shows?

...yup a lot

[TWENTY-SIX] What are you eating or

drinking at the moment?

...wala nga eh… tinatamad pa ko magluto…

[TWENTY-SEVEN] Do you speak any other

languages?

Yup… English & Arabic… Kephalik??!@!

[TWENTY-EIGHT] Whats your favorite

smell?

...issey miyaki

[TWENTY-NINE] Describe your life.

...funny…

[THIRTY] Have you ever kissed in the

rain?

Hindi pa… itry ko sa u… hehe

[THIRTY-ONE] Do you like the rain?

...pag may duty… NO! madalang naman ulan ditto…

[THIRTY-TWO] What are you thinking

about right now?

...yung kakainin ko mamaya… hehe

[THIRTY-THREE] What should you be

doing right now?

...i should be sleeping na coz im working tonight!

[THIRTY-FOUR] What is your favorite

memory?

...uhmm… yung precious times with my family esp my SON

[THIRTY-FIVE] What are you listening

to?

...senti songs

[THIRTY-SIX] Who was the last person

you told I love you ?

...anak ko… sa text

[THIRTY-EIGHT] Do you act differently

around the person you like?

...yeah a bit

[THIRTY-NINE] What is your natural

hair color?

...black

[FORTY] Who was the last person to

make you smile?

...si apple kasi ganda nung pinadala nyang quote sa text… hehe…

I've Been Too Demanding

Eto ang ginagawa ng mga walang magawa... hehe...

uhm... Don't ask me about the title... nikopya ko lang... hehe...

1. Have you ever actually sat down and

thought about why you like the person

you like?

= of course

2. What's your latest addiction?

= sleeping hehe kulang kasi ako nun…

3. Is there someone you'd really like

to hang out with and just talk about

stuff?

= yeah meron syempre

4. Is there something that has

happened in your past that you really

hate talking about?

= yep

5. Do you think a lot of people think

bad things about you?

= oo nman. But I just don’t mind them

6. Do you think you're approachable?

= very much

7. Did you enjoy your weekend?

= duty ako last weekend eh

8. Name your fave song (recent)

= you changed my life in a moment by Raymond manalo… alam ko luma nay un..

9. When did you last cry?

= uhm… tagal na… before coming back here in Saudi I guess, from a short vacation

10. How late did you stay up last

night?

= gising ako hanggang 330 am… o laban ka… hehe

11. Has someone of the same sex

ever told you they loved you, and

meant it?

= yeah…

12.What do you think of the most when

you are alone?

= sex... hehe…

13. Name the song that every time it plays you remember your boy/girl.

= there’s no easy way (to break somebody’s heart)

14. The most unforgetable date (month/day/year)you had.

= date ba as in going out… kalimutan ko na petsa… yung kasama ko lang natatandaan ko… hehe

15. Do you like your school/work?

= yeah… ok lang… ER work is mhirap but fun…

16. Are you a flirt?

= di masyado

17.Your currently listening to?

= mark bautista’s songs

18.When was the last time that you

went swimming and where?

= two weeks ago… lapit lang ditto sa haus…

19. Been to bora?

= ay naku… lagi alang tym eh

20. Did you ever fall out of love?

= minsan ata… hehe

21. Did you ever felt sorry for feeling that way?

= yeah… syempre

22. Have you ever gotten mad because

somebody said they'd call you and they

didnt?

= oo naman

23. Did your present gf/bf already hurt you emotionally?

= uhm… yeah… pero ok na kami

25. What is the connection between you

and the last person you texted?

= friends!

Ang Pag-ibig ay Isang Oxymoron

(forwarded stuff)

Nakakatawa talaga ang love. Isa siyang napakalaking oxymoron. Lahat ng pwede mong masabi sa kanya, baliktarin mo, at totoo pa rin. Ang labo di ba? Pero ang linaw.

Masaya magmahal. Malungkot magmahal. Di mo naiintindihan, pero naiintindihan mo. Walang wason. Maraming rason. Di mo na kaya, pero kaya mo pa rin. Masakit magmahal, pero okey lang. Sus, ano ba talaga?!

May kaibigan ako, ang sabi niya dati, “Love is only for stupid people.” Nakakatawa kasi laude and standing niya. Pero dumating ang panahon, na in-love din ang hunghang. At ayun, tanga na siya ngayon.

Lahat kasi ng nahahawakan ng love, nagiging oxymoron din. O kaya paminsan, nagiging moron lang. Hindi lang kasi basta baliktaran ang pag-ibig. Lahat ng bagay nababaligtad din niya. Lahat ng malalakas na tao, humihina. Ang mayayabang, nagpapakumbaba. Ang mga walang pakialam, nagiging Mother Teresa. Ang mga henyo, nauubusan ng sagot. Ang malulungkot, sumasaya.

Nakakatawa talaga. Lalo na kapag dumadating sya sa mga taong ayaw na talaga magmahal. Napansin ko nga eh. Parang kung gusto mo lang ma in-love ulit, sabihin mo lang ang magic words na “Ayoko na ma in-love!” biglang WACHA! Ayan na siya. Nang-aasar. Magpapaasar ka naman.

Di ba nakakatawa rin na pagdating sa problema ng ibang tao, ang galling galling mo? Pero pag problema mo na yung pinag-uusapan, parang nawawalan ng saysay lahat ng ipinayo mo dun sa namomroblemang  tao?

Naiisip mong wala naming mali sa mga sinabi mo. Pero bakit parang wala rin tama?

Bali-baliktad din ang nasasabi ng mga taong tinamaan ng madugong pana ng pag-ibig. “Ngayon ko lang nalaman, ganito pala. Sabi ko na eh!” “Ang sarap mabuhay. Pwede na ko mamatay. Now na!”

At hindi lang yon. Ang sarap ding pagtawanan ng mga taong alam naman nilang masasaktan sila, eh magpapatihulog pa rin sa bangin ng pag-ibig. Tapos pag luray-luray na yung puso nila, siyempre hindi sila yung may kasalanan. Siya! “Bakit niya ako sinaktan?” May kasama pang pagsuntok sa pader yun, at pagbabagsak ng pinto. Hayup talaga.

Mauubos ang buong magdamag ko kakasabi ng mga bagay na nakakatawa, pag pag-ibig na ang pinag-uusapan. Ang dami ko na kasing beses siyang nakasalubong kaya masasabi ko nang eksperto na ‘ko.

Pero wala pa rin akong alam. Pero ang pinakanakakatawa sa lahat ay ang katotohanang kapag gusto magpatawa ng pag-ibig, ipusta mo na lahat ng ari-arian mo, dahil siguradong ikaw ang punchline.

Nakakatawa no?

Nakakaiyak.

Why Do We Love Ba?

(forwarded stuff)

Why do we love ba? So we can have somebody to talk to? Someone who can be there pag gusto natin gumala? A person na puwedeng manlibre sa atin? Taong magbibitbit ng gamit mo? Alalay for short!

Eh pano kung di ka nya mahal? Would you still love him/her? Would you still continue to care for that person?

Bakit naman? You didn’t love that person para magkaroon ka ng alalay, magkaroon ka ng instant meal dahil libre, taong gagawa ng assignments mo or projects, or taong mahihila mo if you want to go out? If that’s what you think about love, well, sorry… ang babaw mo!

Loving a person doesn’t need to have a criteria na dapat maganda o guwapo, dapat loving a person doesn't need to have a criteria na dapat maganda o guwapo, dapat mabait or understanding, kasi once you fall inlove you take the risk of accepting dat person kahit maingay sya matulog, yung hilik ng hilik, kahit matakaw sya o sobrang fat na hindi na hindi kayo kasya pag puno na ang jeep! Kahit sobrang moody sya na kulang na lang ay sapakin mo siya sa inis! Yung sobrang selosa na pati barkada pinagseselosan…Bad trip di ba? And yung napaka arte... OA kung baga! O kahit ano pang things that would turn you off.

Hirap talaga magmahal trying to be PERFECT kase gusto mong magtagal pero hindi iyon ang sagot sa lahat. ACCEPTING the real person fully kase if you said na mahal mo siya, you don’t need to find answers kung bakit mo siya mahal… kase lahat ng tao nagbabago but if you accept that person magbago man siya in the middle of your relationship, hindi ka masasaktan kase you know that darating din yun… tsaka tanggap mo siya ng buo… mahirap gawin pero masarap subukan, dahil wala ng sasaya pa if you let one person feel na MAHAL NA MAHAL mo siya, without asking for anything in return… then you can say… wow yun pala ang LOVE!

Being happy doesn’t mean everything’s perfect. It means you’ve decided to see beyond the imperfections.

11 Reasons Why U are still Single

(forwarded stuff)

11. Destiny Adik
Eto yung mga naghihintay kay "Destiny"
na gumawa ng paraan para pagtagpuin
sila ng kanilang mga "partner in
life"...
Ayannn... Kapapanood nyo
ng "Serendipity" eh feeling nila ang
nangyari sa movie eh mangyayari rin sa
kanila... Such a cliche...
Hindi ba nila alam na kung walang
effort, destiny is useless...

10. Perfectionist/ Mapili
Yes, isang taong perpeksiyonista. ..
Yung tipong dapat ganito ang magiging
kapartner ko... Pag may nakilala,
nakita lang na pangit ang kuko o may
dumi lang, turn-off na agad...
O kaya ang daming ayaw. Ayaw sa
mabait - boring daw, gusto ng bad
boy/pilya pero kapag pinaiyak ka,
tatanungin ka bakit ang sama mo at
bakit mo nagawa yun! Adik ka ba?!
Ayaw sa cute, ayaw din naman sa
panget. Meron dyan gusto ka ayaw mo
naman. Ung gusto mo eh halos
magtambling ka pero deadma pa rin yang
stunts mo sa kanya!
Pasaway ka rin e! Ano ba talaga kuya?

9. Busy-busyhan
Opo, eto yung ang mundo e gumagalaw
lang sa libro at ballpen kung
estudyante ka o kaya naman sa computer
at files kung office staff ka. Yung
tipong aalis ng bahay ng alas 6 o alas
7 ng umaga at uuwi ng bahay ng 6
hanggang alas 8 ng gabi [baligtad
naman para sa mga nag tratrabaho sa
call center].. Sabay tulog na.. Kapag
Sabado masaya na sila sa Internet (o
sa Multiply/friendster ), sa pagkain na
niluluto ni mama at sa Linggo naman
sisimba at maghahanda na ng kelangan
para sa lunes hanggang byernes..
Pssssst.. Pause for awhile..

8. Friendship Theory
Ano naman ito? Eto yung ang buhay ay
kay bestfriend o kaya kay special
friend na hindi masasabi-sabi sa
friendship nya sa loob ng kanilang
mahabang panahon na pagsasama dahil
baka daw maapektuhan ang
pakikipagkaibigan at iwasan sya..
Yung tipong pag may kasama si
friendship na iba, nagseselos na wala
naman sa lugar, pero syempre wag
pahalata, kunyari happy sya for
friendship..

Aba

! Oi lakasan mo ang loob at baka
mamaya forever mong pagsisihan yan kaw
rin. Minsan pa naman pareho kayong
naghihintayan. . Hmmp!

7. Born-to-be-one (Autistic)
Eto yung nasa palad na ang pagiging
single daw.. Walang reasons.. Basta
lang nabuhay sya sa mundo na mag-isa
at feeling nya mamatay sya sa mundo ng
mag-isa..

Kesyo magmamadre o magpapari
na lang.. Asa kang tatanggapin ka pa
noh!

6. Happy-go-lucky
Eto yung taong walang alam kundi
kasiyahan at trippings.. Kahit sino
nalang basta no strings attached.. For
fun lang daw.. Walang halong
seryosohan..

Aba

hoy! Yang init ng katawan mo e
ikiskis mo nalang sa pader..
Makakahanap ka rin ng katapat mo!!!

5. Wrong Place

May nakaranas na ba nito? Yung
pakiramdam mo nasa ibang mundo ka.
Yung ang nakakaharap mo e yung mga
hindi mo gusto, yung mga hindi mo
hinahanap. Alam mo yun?
Halimbawa nasa ibang bansa ka, pero
ang hinahanap mo e yung amoy ng nasa
sariling bayan mo. O kaya naman e nasa
sarili mong bayan ka, nasa normal na
lipunan, pero ikaw ang abnormal at
hindi mo kayang sabihin na abnormal
din ang hanap mo kung ayaw mong ibitin
ka nila ng patiwarik.

4. Wrong Time
Eto yung mga tao na sinasabi na "hindi
pa ako ready e, bata pa kasi ako" o
kaya naman "hindi pa ako handa sa
panahong ito, wala pa ako kayang
ipagmalaki.. "
Yes meron pong ganyan.. Yung feeling
nila may tamang panahon para sa love..
Awwwwwww..

Aba

kelan yun? Pag uugod
ugod ka na at yung time mo e bitin na?
O baka naman pag pang out of time ka
na? Oist, sugod lang ng sugod..

3. Si parents kasi!
Yes, factor din ang komunidad na
ginagalawan mo.. Una, ayaw pa ni mader
o pader na magkaron ka kahit 22 anyos
ka na at
kelangan umabot ka muna raw ng 40 bago
magkaroon ng gf/bf..
O kaya naman ikaw mismo! Takot sa
sasabihin ni parents at ni kapitbahay
na tsismosa sa magiging kasama mo..

Aba

ikaw ba naman ang sabihan na "Alam
mo hindi kayo bagay.. Langit at lupa
kayo.." Awwwww.. Payo ko sayo,
Pakialam nila diba? Palibhasa inggit!

2. Traumatic Experience
Eto kalimitan ang reason ng marami.
Ayaw ko na! Takot na ako mangyari pa
ang nangyari dati! O diba ang drama ng
layp? Yes, tama ka.. Eto yung dahil sa
past relationship mo, e until na ayaw
mo ng magkaroon at sinumpa mo na ata
ang magmahal.. Dahil sa pinagpalit ka
sa mas pangit, o kaya naman iniwan
ka ng walang word na bye-bye, o dahil
binugbog ka! Ano pa ba? Madami yan.
wag na nating isa isahin at baka
tumulo si tears.. Heheh!
Gayunpaman, eto lang masasabi ko mga
hija at hijo.. Iba't-iba ang lasa ng
pag-ibig.. May mapait, may mapakla,
may matamis at may maasim..

Aba

mapalad ka at natikman mo ang iba't-
ibang lasa nito.. Kaya ikaw, do not be
afraid to fall in love again.. Malay
mo sweetiness na ang malasahin mo next
time.. E di panalo ka sa lotto.. Yan
ang nagpapalakas sayo, yan ang
bumubuhay sayo, ang pag-ibig.. Tsk!
Drama!

1. EX to the nth power
Oi aminin!!! LOVE parin si ex kahit 1
or 2 yrs na ang nakakalipas. . May
ganito naman.. Yung tipong ilang taon
ang nakakalipas, hindi parin
makalimutan si ex.. Yung pinagsamahan,
yung tawanan, yung iyakan, at Lahat ng
nangyari sa inyo nung kayo pa..
Malungkot man at sa kung anumang
kadahilanan, maganda man o masama ito,
kelangan nyong magpaalam sa isa't
isa..
YES, after a year sasabihin natin, im
over him/her na, pero pag-usapan natin
ang love at ang nangyari sa ating
relastionship from the past,
TANDAANNNNNNNNNNNNN , eto na, sya agad
ang naalala mo.. At habang nagkukwento
ka, ouch may kirot, o kaya may ngiti
at may bumabagabag sa ating kalooban..
Ano kaya yun? AMININ mo na kasi MAHAL
mo pa si EX.. Isa lang ang masasabi
ko, well mahirap sya kalimutan, alam
ko yan, pero open your heart and
makipagdate ka, lumabas ka, at try to
entertain someone.. Wag mo ikumpara si
ex sa iba.. At give urself a Kitkat,
take a break

On Marriage

Advice for the married, planning to get married, single but not available, single and available, no love life.

Eduardo Calasanz was a student at the Ateneo Manila University Philippines, where he had
Father Ferriols as professor. Father Ferriols, at that time was the Philosophy department head.

Currently he still teaches Philosophy for graduating college students in Ateneo. Father Ferriols has been very popular for his mind opening and
enriching classes but was also notorious for the grades he gives. Still people took his classes for the learning and deep insight they take home with them every day (if only they could do something about the grades...)

Anyway, come grade giving time, (Ateneo has letter grading systems, the highest being an A, lowest at D, with F for flunk), Fr. Ferriols had this long discussion with the registrar people because
he wanted to give Calasanz an A+. Either that or he doesn't teach at all...Calasanz got his A+.

Read the paper below to find out why.



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PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE

by Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz



I have never met a man who didn't want to be

loved. But I have seldom met a man who didn't fear

marriage. Something about the closure seems

constricting, not enabling. Marriage seems easier

to understand for what it cuts out of our lives than

for what it makes possible within our lives.



When I was younger this fear immobilized me. I

did not want to make a mistake. I saw my friends

get married for reasons of social acceptability, or

sexual fever, or just because they thought it was

the logical thing to do. Then I watched, as they

and their partners became embittered and petty in

their dealings with each other. I looked at older

couples and saw, at best, mutual toleration of

each other. I imagined a lifetime of loveless nights

and bickering and could not imagine subjecting

myself or someone else to such a fate.



And yet, on rare occasions, I would see old

couples who somehow seemed to glow in each

other's presence. They seemed really in love, not

just dependent upon each other and tolerant of

each other's foibles. It was an astounding sight,

and it seemed impossible. How, I asked myself,

can they have survived so many years of

sameness, so much irritation at the other's habits?

What keeps love alive in them, when most of us

seem unable to even stay together, much less love

each other? The central secret seems to be in

choosing well. There is something to the claim of

fundamental compatibility. Good people can create

a bad relationship, even though they both dearly

want the relationship to succeed. It is important to

find someone with whom you can create a good

relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is

hard to see clearly in the early stages.



Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors

the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you

to the thousands of little things by which

relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to

find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming

sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve

themselves sexually and ride out the most heated

period of sexual attraction in order to see what is

on the other side. This can work, but it can also

leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the

sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know

each other apart from their sexuality. But they

cannot see clearly, because the presence of

unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it

keeps them from having any normal perception of

what life would be like together. The truly lucky

people are the ones who manage to become long-

time friends before they realize they are attracted

to each other. They get to know each other's

laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see

each other at their worst and at their best. They

share time together before they get swept into the

entangling intimacy of their sexuality.



This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall

under the spell of your sexual attraction

immediately, you need to look beyond it for other

keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter.

Laughter tells you how much you will enjoy each

other's company over the long term. If your

laughter together is good and healthy, and not at

the expense of others, then you have a healthy

relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of

surprise. If you can make each other laugh, you

can always surprise each other. And if you can

always surprise each other, you can always keep

the world around you new. Beware of a relationship

in which there is no laughter. Even the most

intimate relationships based only on seriousness

have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a

common serious viewpoint on the world tends to

turn you against those who do not share the same

viewpoint, and your relationship can become based

on being critical together.



After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the

world in a way you respect. When two people first

get together, they tend to see their relationship as

existing only in the space between the two of

them. They find each other endlessly fascinating,

and the overwhelming power of the emotions they

are sharing obscures the outside world. As the

relationship ages and grows, the outside world

becomes important again. If your partner treats

people or circumstances in a way you can't

accept, you will inevitably come to grief. Look at

the way she cares for others and deals with the

daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more,

your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you

do not respect the way you each deal with the

world around you, eventually the two of you will not

respect each other.



Look also at how your partner confronts the

mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and

practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in

the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the

mystery of the unseen in life and relationships,

while the other is drawn only to the literal and the

practical, you must take care that the distance

doesnt become an unbridgeable gap that leaves

you each feeling isolated and

misunderstood.



There are many other keys, but you must find

them by ourself. We all have unchangeable parts

of our hearts that we will not betray and private

commitments to a vision of life that we will not

deny. If you fall in love with someone who cannot

nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you

cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves

growing further apart until you live in separate

worlds where you share the business of life, but

never touch each other where the heart lives and

dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the

cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that

leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with

their

mates.



So choose carefully and well. If you do, you will

have chosen a partner with whom you can grow,

and then the real miracle of marriage can take

place in your hearts. I pick my words carefully

when I speak of a miracle. But I think it is not too

strong a word. There is a miracle in marriage. It is

called transformation. Transformation is one of the

most common events of nature. The seed

becomes the flower. The cocoon becomes the

butterfly. Winter becomes spring and love

becomes a child. We never question these,

because we see them around us every day. To us

they are not miracles, though if we did not know

them they would be impossible to believe.

Marriage is a transformation we choose to make.

Our love is planted like a seed, and in time it

begins to flower. We cannot know the flower that

will blossom, but we can be sure that a bloom will

come. If you have chosen carefully and wisely, the

bloom will be good. If you have chosen poorly or for

the wrong reason, the bloom will be flawed. We are

quite willing to accept the reality of negative

transformation in a marriage. It was negative

transformation that always had me terrified of the

bitter marriages that I feared when I was younger.

It never occurred to me to question the dark

miracle that transformed love into harshness and

bitterness. Yet I was unable to accept the

possibility that the first heat of love could be

transformed into something positive that was

actually deeper and more meaningful than the heat

of fresh passion. All I could believe in was the

power of this passion and the fear that when it

cooled I would be left with something lesser and

bitter. But there is positive transformation as well.

Like negative transformation, it results from a slow

accretion of little things. But instead of death by a

thousand blows, it is growth by a thousand

touches of love. Two histories intermingle. Two

separate beings, two separate presence, two

separate consciousnesses come together and

share a view of life that passes before them. They

remain separate, but they also become one. There

is an expansion of awareness, not a closure and a

constriction, as I had once feared. This is not to

say that there is not tension and there are not

traps. Tension and traps are part of every choice of

life, from celibate to monogamous to having

multiple lovers. Each choice contains within it the

lingering doubt that the road not taken somehow

more fruitful and exciting, and each becomes

dulled to the richness that it alone contains. But

only marriage allows life to deepen and expand

and be leavened by the knowledge that two have

chosen, against all odds, to become one. Those

who live together without marriage can know the

pleasure of shared company, but there is a

specific gravity in the marriage commitment that

deepens that experience into something richer and

more complex.



So do not fear marriage, just as you should not

rush into it for the wrong reasons. It is an act of

faith and it contains within it the power of

transformation.



If you believe in your heart that you have found

someone with whom you are able to grow, if you

have sufficient faith that you can resist the endless

attraction of the road not taken and the partner not

chosen, if you have the strength of heart to

embrace the cycles and seasons that your love

will experience, then you may be ready to seek

the miracle that marriage offers. If not, then wait.

The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth

your patience. When the time comes, a thousand

flowers will bloom...endlessly.



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A beautiful piece. Pls pass it on especially to the

young people who restarting to get into

relationships or are in a relationship. It would save

them a lot of heartaches and bitterness down the

road.

101 Ways to Say I LOVE YOU

Just want to share this nice post to all of you, which is actually a forwarded email years back by a dear friend.

101 Most Romantic/Passionate/Sweet Things To Do
For Your Girlfriend/Boyfriend

(101 steps to having a good relationship)

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex)
16. One word: Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time
you're together.
21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great
cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don't wear underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad; Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear,
then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight .
30. Make love.
31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss/smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you
mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
36. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell her that she doesn't have to do anything
she doesn't want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other's eyes.
40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you
love her, and kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA = Public Display of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her
name
53. Draw. (If you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks,
and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
59. Guys like half-shirts.
60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it
over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their hear beating, you aren't close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
66. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with
her head in my lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to
look in a mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your parent's relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to
call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about
them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you
have.
80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points)
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
82. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.
84. Hang out with his/her friends. (more brownie points)
85. Go to church/pray/worship together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other, or don't stay together.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and
giveit to them.
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't
thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
95. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
96. Buy her a charm bracelet/necklace w/her name on it.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say,
"Sweet dreams."